Dear CL.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to start a blog war. Just to clarify some issues. Basically, you have been a thorn in my friend's relationship. Not good. Yea you were some girl of the guy's past, and you are trying hard to move on. Your blog is basically incessant chanting on how much you have moved on. Question is, have you?

When I used to be hung up on my ex, I blogged non-stop. "He is a bastard, there's nothing worth holding on to." "I don't want anymore of this drama, so stfu and leave me alone." yada-yada-yada. I've been through it all. And all I can say is, no matter how much you wanna hate that guy, you can't. Because love overpowers hate anytime and the actual opposite of love is indifference. You literally have to stop caring. Difficult, but just ignore everything. Even this post (if you manage to see it.) If you want to acknowledge it, just blog "I understand" it will be good.

I don't know what kind of a guy he is, but I know what kind of girl my friend is. So as far as I am concerned, if he hasn't hurt her yet, there is no reason for me to beat him up (literally). It is very rude to hurl insults at people. As you can see, I haven't insulted you at all because I want to show that I just wanna be a mediator. Whatever you said in your post, is totally uncalled for. I am very very sure my friend did not drag you back into any drama. She even has proof for it. See below.

I think it is a pretty decent message. You even replied nicely so that means you're a nice girl! There is definitely no sarcasm in her tone. Why? Quoted "you know her name, but you don't know her story." To summarize it, she has suffered a broken heart as well. And she understands the pain, as well as how your friends see you go through the pain because she saw through mine. It's not like we have never cried until our eyes swell the next day. Or scream our lungs out hoping it relieves the pain. If you really wanna move on, delete his number, delete his pictures, delete everything that has him. It will take awhile but it has to be done. Unless they are deleted, you can never fully move on.

Drunk texts and calls don't work. I tried. Patching back with an ex-boyf/ex-lover, don't work either. You can have the nostalgia and think back on all the sweet moments you had, but don't let those memories fool you because there is a reason why it ended. If there was no reason, it wouldn't have ended at all. That one reason will always be the cause of every end no matter how many times you patch up. Trust me, my 3-yr long r/s, break and patch about 3-4 cycles, it still ended.

I hope you can read this post with an open mind, not as an enemy's backup. Think of it as reading advice from a magazine "Love Talks" column. A girl-to-girl chit chat session. All these are simply advices, but they only work if you are determined to help yourself. You had so many wonderful happenings in your life, so believe in those happy events. (:

p.s. Names are not written to protect privacy.

Lotsa love,
Carmen Sarah

Revamped Branding: The All New CODE SOCIETE Feat. DJ Nicole Chen and DJ Linc.

Hey people, I am finally officially back from my hiatus. My hiatus includes haven't been clubbing, haven't been partying, haven't been blogging (both here and my nail polish blog). Too busy planning my birthday party, getting used to school, constantly busy with netball. /:

So, to break my hiatus, here are some awesome news! Code Society has recently underwent a rebranding and international launch! In collaboration with Prism, they are now know as CODE SOCIETE! Don't wait! Go to www.codesociete.com and sign up now to be on the mailing list of the hottest parties all around the world! :D Once sign up, you will be on the list for all VIP invites. How exciting!!

Not forgetting their partner, do check out www.prismtechnics.com! They are prompt with their updates. I mean, they update LIVE! Checkout their Prism Seen where you see the stars that the co-founders hang out with. (Eg. Big Bang, Jay Park, Avril Lavigne, Paris Hilton... etc.) The list goes on. I am fainting just blogging about it. Part of the collaboration are Model-DJ Nicole Chen (Code Societe) and DJ Linc (Prism). Our music is awesome thanks to them!

So don't wait! Sign up now at Code Societe! Follow us on instagram @codesociete too!

Follow DJ Nicole Chen on soundcloud : www.soundcloud.com/nicolechen

Lotsa love,
Carmen Sarah

Delayedddd

I am so sorry for all the delay! I have so many posts lined up to post up here but I have been so busy! Do tweet me @partycar to remind me that I need to blog about my zoo trip, father's day dinner and the latest addition, clubbing/meet up with my primary school friends! hahahah. I promise I will do them soon! In the meantime, do check out my nail review blog http://polishthecar.wordpress.com where I upload a review every week! Leave me questions on my ask.fm box too <3

Lotsa love,
Carmen Sarah

LEH-GO-LAND

A few weeks back, Boyf and I went to Legoland Malaysia with our friends Anna and Junyi! I never really got about to putting my pictures on my personal blog, so now I have finally found the time! We had such a fun day but only because we had the right company. Legoland is an interactive place which is more suited for families with young children instead of young adults. However, if you are a young adult with a kid in you, you will definitely have fun as long as you are with your friends. (:

Alright, time for pictures!!

If you all are planning to go, I suggest you head on to www.groupon.com.sg because they have a package for Legoland! $59.90 per person inclusive of 2-way coach transport, Legoland entry ticket and insurance! I had fun there so go ahead and enjoy yourself ^^

Lotsa love,
Carmen Sarah

Jealousy reeks.

Never really been fond of myself. I've always felt my shoulders were too broad, too much love handles, and everywhere that was once toned is now flabby. Kinda sucky especially when I know my boyfriend is pretty good-looking that girls actually "fish" him in clubs. I've been working on my dagger stares whenever I club with him. *oops* Do you know how jealous I am of girls who I don't think even need to exercise and yet they just stay slim??!?!?!! My once slim legs which are the only assets I am proud of just looks gross because my butt ain't toned ):

I guess girls really have to forsake alot of things in life if they really want to look good. As in healthy good and not stick-thin "good" which is not good. (Am I making sense?) Anyway, I mean to stay healthy looking with a toned body, it means constant exercising with proper meals, supper not included. Proper sleep is also needed (not a very good example with this late post sighhhh) to give you good complexion and NO EYEBAGS! ): yes my eyebags are soooo bad that instagram filters cannot hide them! /: So that means I need to say "NO!" to late night supper with friends ): yup, sacrifices for a pretty face and hot bod.

For girls who are trying to stay on a vegetarian diet just to look good, do note that to be completely vegetarian, you need to take supplement pills to give you the vitamins/minerals that can only be found in meat. So I suggest eating meat as they should be cheaper than your pills and they taste good. Just remove the fats!

Probably the next thing to continue staying pretty, is to get a good camera.(HAHA!) Either that or pay for some awesome app and add filters just to look pretty. I am terribly horrible with that and overlays because I am extremely lazy, but I think I should start and do blogposts with nice photos. I shall prove that a DSLR is not needed ^^

To-blog-list:

- Legoland.

- Singapore Zoo.

To-meet-list:

- Sherilyn

- Yoksan

- Bryant and Joey

- Sunny

- Shakeela and Wilson

- Felice, Gwen and Jam

- Gloria and Jenem

- Peifang, May Ee and Saienah

- Abigail and Grace

Dear friends, I must meet you all soon okay!!! I'm running out of holidays /:

Lotsa love,

Carmen Sarah.

Insanely eventful weekend

Hey everybody! So my weekend started off with the BBQ on Friday at Junyi's place. It was an amazing BBQ because I prepared most of the food. Like literally. There was a miscommunication as I mentioned in the previous post hence I marinated the sambal stingray and squid on my own for the group. I thought 'ok one BBQ and then I have to exercise during the weekend."

That did not happen. Yes I did have training on Saturday morning at SCGS but that very night itself, I had another BBQ. OMG. The food was awesome though. There was beer, wine and moscato. The potato salad was awesome! The prawns were amazing as well! I have no idea which caterer it was but I think I need to find out soon!

And then there was today, I just came back from Sherilyn's 21st birthday party at her place. Her youngest sister was so adorable. She was so excited to "rap", sing and dance for the crowd. What a cutiepie! Boyfriend and I had such a great time. I will do a photo post one of these days when I am very free to select my pictures.

To be up-to-date with my photos, do click the instagram follow button on the right. (:

Lotsa love,
Carmen Sarah

Busy week!

Hey everybody, this week has been a busy week for me. I recently started my netball competiton, Energizer National League (ENL) and so did my SIM recreational team. So I have been helping them with their training as well as going down to watch the other teams of my club. Been so busy travelling up and down. I still have to pack in work and also some fun time.

Managed to catch Fast and Furious 6 as well as Hangover 3 within 1 week. Amazing! Not only that, I just got back from a BBQ with friends. For the first time, I marinated the BBQ food instead of having it catered due to a miscommunication on who was to get the food. At least I managed to experience grocery shopping with Junyi, Anna and my lovely boy, Qingyuan (: So I had to marinate the stingray and squid and place the sambal chilli over them. Quite a fun experience and it is wayyyy cheaper than getting it catered.

Due to my extremely hectic week, I haven't actually found the time to transfer my polish posts over to my new website. Don't worry I will get it done by the middle of next week! Get ready for some new colours ^^ The nail review website link will not be revealed until I have set it up nicely. So be patient guys!

Gotta head to bed now because I have training at 9am tomorrow! ): Goodnight everybody!

Lotsa love,
Carmen Sarah